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Offline Traysha

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Two burials in one grave?
« on: Monday 20 May 19 21:02 BST (UK) »
I wanted a pic of a grave at Epsom Cemetery and someone supplied the plot no on Find a Grave, so I asked some kind person to take one for me. She posted one of that grave number but it was the wrong name for me. However on Epsom burial website they are both buried at the same site. Don't know if the two people are connected but one is a kind of war memorial of someone who served in the CEF(Canadian Expeditionary Forces). The burial date given for the private is 1year before the one I'm interested in. Any thoughts. By the way there is no headstone for the latter.
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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #1 on: Monday 20 May 19 21:19 BST (UK) »
In many cemeteries, if the plot for the first burial wasn’t purchased, the same plot would be used for a future burial, often unrelated.
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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #2 on: Tuesday 21 May 19 16:51 BST (UK) »
A couple of times I've found a burial I wasn't expecting, in a "Family grave" - one proved to be the child of young neighbours of the family, in another a relative of the later( keep up) husband of a second wife, who had been widowed ...oddly enough the original husband was parked elsewhere??
You never know, there may be a connection turns up in time....
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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #3 on: Tuesday 21 May 19 17:56 BST (UK) »
In many cemeteries, if the plot for the first burial wasn’t purchased, the same plot would be used for a future burial, often unrelated.

Yes, my Gt. Uncle (buried second, on top) shares a grave with a stranger.

My Gt Aunt was swayed by her Brother in grief, as it made the cost of the grave cheaper. However, my Gt Aunt who could have purchased a single grave for two in the Council Cemetery, deeply regretted the decision afterward, as she knew she couldn't be buried there. However, her ashes were let in the surface, as requested in her Will.

Unless, it is a Vault, or Family Grave, the Parish Church often buried the deceased with or just above the previous burial.


A couple of times I've found a burial I wasn't expecting, in a "Family grave" - one proved to be the child of young neighbours of the family, in another a relative of the later( keep up) husband of a second wife, who had been widowed ...oddly enough the original husband was parked elsewhere??
You never know, there may be a connection turns up in time....

Anything might turn up, in burial Records and on Memorials.

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Not everyone had a Headstone. Others have crumbled, been damaged and/or been removed.

Sometimes, the Headstone is left to the last family burial in the grave and the family alive then (if any), sometimes don't bother to purchase one, or cannot afford one.

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Traysha, have you checked to see whether they are distantly related?

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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #4 on: Tuesday 21 May 19 18:11 BST (UK) »
Hi,

Would it be possible for you to send me a personal message with the name/names of the people, particularly the one who served in the CEF(Canadian Expeditionary Forces) ?

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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #5 on: Tuesday 21 May 19 22:22 BST (UK) »
Thanks for your input but don't think the two are connected. Looks like the ex soldier was buried first, then mine, then a memorial erected to the private. Strange but the latters widow and daughter have a grave of their own.
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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #6 on: Tuesday 21 May 19 22:39 BST (UK) »
Sandra, can't send a pm as it says your inbox is full ;D ::)
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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #7 on: Tuesday 21 May 19 23:06 BST (UK) »
Can't find my outbox to retrieve the pm.
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Re: Two burials in one grave?
« Reply #8 on: Wednesday 22 May 19 08:08 BST (UK) »
Can't find my outbox to retrieve the pm.

Go to https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?action=pm;f=inbox

And then there is a drop-down menu under "Messages" (grey box, LH side) to get to "sent Items"
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