I dug up a note that my grannie sent to me in 1986 when I asked about my great-grandmother, Kate Hargreaves. She was the daughter of James Hargreaves, oldest son to William & Elizabeth. it reads: "Kate Hargreaves came from an old Lancashire family who had a farm and skinning mill in Harwood Edge near Blackburn. The skinning mill was water powered and failed when steam came in. Her father was John Hargreaves and mother was Jane Smalley. There were 5 children (2 died young) and Jane died when Fred was born. The children were brought up by their grandmother - Elizabeth (Pickles) Hargreaves."
Should that be spinning mill rather than "skinning mill"?
Was the wedding in 1861 at St. Bartholomew, Great Harwood?
John Hargreaves, full; cloth looker; Gt. Harwood
Jane Smalley, full; spinster; Gt. Harwood
Groom's father William Hargreaves, retired
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It seems that William may have been alive then, although not necessarily.
Have you seen the photo of Harwood Edge Farm and datestone "Edward and Anne Pickles 1767" on the Great Harwood website? It's under "History 1600-1800". There's a picture of Dewhurst Farm and surroundings under "Harwood Moor". Dewhurst Farm is between Harwood Edge Farm and the area Harwood Edge.
GH website has a page about Great Harwood Charter Fair. It was an important fair; it lasted for a week, later reduced to 3 days, and people came from far & wide. "... flannels from Rochdale, fustians and calicoes from Blackburn and *Rossendale, blankets and baize from Bury, the friezes of the Yorkshire valleys and broadcloths of their more distant towns …"
* Haslingden is in Rossendale. Fairs were opportunities for single people to meet members of the opposite sex. (Haslingden had a cattle market until late 20thC - chance for farming families to meet.)
https://www.great-harwood.org.ukHarwood Edge Farm and Harwood Edge were shown on Ordnance Survey map Lancashire sheet 63, surveyed 1844-6. Harwood Edge Farm is not far from Rishton and is NW of Tottleworth. Harwood Edge is W. of Great Harwood Lower Town. This map can be viewed online on National Library of Scotland website
https://maps.nls.uk/view/102343952 Maps of 2 different dates can be viewed side-by-side.
Ordnance Survey map of Haslingden in NLS collection is
https://maps.nls.uk/view/102343976Haslingden area was surveyed 1844-5.
A map of Haslingden showing extent and boundaries on:
Rossendale Home page of Lancashire Online Parish Clerks website
www.lan-opc.org.uk/Rossendale/index.htmland on GENUKI site
https://www.genuki.org.uk/big/eng/LAN/HaslingdenYou'll see that the northern parts of Haslingden are only a few miles south of the towns of Blackburn, Oswaldtwistle and Accrington.
Several turnpike roads were built or existing roads improved 1750s-1820s to make travel between towns in this part of Lancashire easier, such as Blackburn to Burnley (via Rishton) 1755; Haslingden - Blackburn (Grane Road) 1810; Blackburn - Accrington 1826 (branch of the Bury, Haslingden, Blackburn & Whalley Trust). Turnpike roads superseded pack-horse routes.
Cotton Town website is a good source for history, although it's about Blackburn and Darwen.
www.cottontown.org 2 websites for Haslingden:
"Haslingden Old and New"
https://haslingdens.blogspot.comRossendale Branch of Lancashire Family History & Heraldry Society
www.rossendale-fhhs.org.uk