I can find a lass b Durham with Father Robert:
1881: (servant away from home)
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:Q271-3GRS1871:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:KDZ1-7ZL1861 eludes at the moment
Marriages Sep 1855 (>99%)
Blackett Mary Teesdale 10a 218
PLEWS Robert Teesdale 10a 218 STEPHENSON Susannah Teesdale 10a 218
Taylor Henry Teesdale 10a 218
PLEWS, ELIZABETH JANE BLACKETT 1857 J Quarter in AUCKLAND Volume 10A Page 149 PLEWS, MARGARET ANN BLACKETT 1859 J Quarter in AUCKLAND UNION Volume 10A Page 145
PLEWS, BARBARA BLACKETT 1861 D Quarter in AUCKLAND Volume 10A Page 169
Hmm. Margaret may have jumpled the gun with Harry.
PLEWS, HARRY - 1885 S Quarter in STOCKTON Volume 10A Page 91
BOWMAN, ERNEST PLEWS 1887 M Quarter in LEEDS Volume 09B Page 490
BOWMAN, MARGARET ANNIE PLEWS 1889 M Quarter in KNARESBROUGH Volume 09A Page 108