I have no specific documents from their funerals in 1981 or 1999. Both cremated. As the youngest of 3 I was not involved in the formalities. Middle sister lived abroad at the time, eldest sister made the arrangements but she is now 82 and is unable to help (memory failure plus seems to have cleared out docs years ago).
I'm unwilling to put personal details on the open forum, I do have the Register details but that doesn't give me the specific dates.
Help, anyone?