« Reply #14 on: Friday 18 October 19 04:07 BST (UK) »
These families were Wesleyan.
You need to find out if the Wesleyan marriage registers for the Kirkhaugh/Haltwhistle area have survived.
Debra 
Hi Debra,
I don't know how to discover if the Wesleyan registers have survived. 
I researched the local Lambley church and if they were "Primitive" Methodists then this may explain it. The first chapel was built at the top of Chapel Lane by the Methodist New Connexion in 1807. In 1847 the Primitive Methodists bought a plot of land on Main Street on which the present Methodist Chapel stands. For a while the ‘Prims’ used the Chapel Lane building but in 1848 it was bought by the Wesleyans and the ‘Primitive’ Methodists had to find other accommodation. Until their own chapel was ready they held their services in a barn in the grounds of Primrose Cottage Main Street. The chapel opened in August 1849.
Elizabeth and Peter are living in Lambley in 1851 in Chapel New House... their eldest son was born in Haltwhistle in 1849, their daughter Hannah was born in Lambley. So they could have married in Lambley but ...now I don't know if they were Primitive Methodists or Wesleyan. and why are others so convinced they went to Gretna Green?
Fordham, Armstrong, Blanch, Baker, Jackson, Clarke, Moffat, Wall, Heaney, Caples, Callinan, Hennessy
Medieval: Browne, Cooke, Scot, Bridgwood, Mee