Each of us has a responsibility to treat information about other people with basic respect.
If the original request was consistent with the supposed purpose and ethos of Rootschat it would not need to be done by PM.
Anonymous requests for personal information about living people raise immediate red flags with me.
I think the time has come for me to call it a day with Rootschat.
Hello there.
Just returned home from a holiday.
I fully respect the conditions as set down by the founders of this site, and am very grateful for the opportunities the site offers to further my research, by the assistance of the talented team of volunteers who offer their expertise, on the NZ board. In return, I help forum posters, where I can.
But I feel there is a bigger picture to be considered, re the use of Private Messaging, as provided for by the Rootschat founders.Along with others, on this forum there have been numerous occasions where I have used the PM system, when our research has extended into the realm of possible living. And I have no problem of doing so, when I consider the objectives are honourable and worthy.
I’m very proud of my small part in assisting to repatriate correspondence [letters & photos] between a father and son; and following the young New Zealand airman’s death, the father and his son’s UK billet hosts.
Faithfully kept safe by two generations in the UK, it was decided it was time for the material to return to NZ, and relatives of the deceased. All that was known, in the UK, was the Airman’s full name, and a NZ address that was no longer used by the subjects family.
Those that took up the challenge of looking for living relatives, had no kinship to the family, and the search for possible descendant recipients, though I recognised the surname as having a local presence, and I had done business with one family of that, not so common, surname.
After a lot of research, a home was found for the material, and the recipients were ever so grateful for gaining keepsakes, that they never knew existed, from that tragic time.
Though I have helped with several repatriations like this example, it is the one that I remember most, as I was given an oppertunity to see the material being repatriated. (When looking for clues)
Alan.
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