Thanks for your replies. Let me try and briefly explain the background to my post, I think I can safely name the person as he is now deceased.
I took a DNA test with Ancestry in 2018 and Henry Vila was shown as my highest match. I had no idea who he was, there was nothing in his profile and no family tree but we had similar Irish ethicity (around 40%). I sent him a brief message in October 2018 asking if he would like to compare information etc. I heard nothing from him until 2 September 2019 when I received a reply that simply said “My birth mother was Nora Barret. She gave birth to me in NYC in 1930.” I noticed also that a small tree of 3 persons had appeared in his Ancestry profile which named his parents as Rafael Vila and Nora Barrett (born Ireland, died New York City).
I wasn’t able to follow this up further until a couple of weeks later when I did some searching using the NYC connection and immediately found Henry Vila’s obituary. This showed that he died on 2 September 2019. I was shocked when I realised that this was the same date as his message. I don’t know the circumstances of his death but I found the timing very strange. His obituary is very detailed, I won’t post it here as it names some of his descendants, but here is an extract.
It is with great sadness that the family of Henry Vila announces his passing at age 89 on Monday, September 2, 2019 in Hilliard, Ohio. He was born on January 28, 1930 in New York City, where he lived and worked for 80 years. He was the son of Rafael Vila (1899-1944), the owner-operator of a barber shop in Upper Manhattan, and Nora Barett. He was raised by his father and his beautiful and beloved step-mother, Enid Eloise (Grey) Vila (1898-1986) who gave him love and kindness and taught him manners and self-respect.
I find the wording on his obituary strange as Nora Barrett barely gets a mention (I’m surprised in some ways that she’s mentioned at all). It is Nora Barratt that I’m trying to find more about as I’m sure this is where my connection is. I was hoping that Henry’s birth certificate (if I could get it) might show more about her (hence my original post). What I’ve found since is:-
- Henry on 1930 census, age 3 months, in NYC shown as adopted son with a large group of Puerto Rico/Spanish persons (I don’t recognise any names)
- Henry is on 1940 census in NYC, age 10 born NYC, with parents Rafael Vila (born Puerto Rico) & Enid Vila (born Jamaica) , grandmother Catherine Frazier born Jamaica
- I can’t find Rafael in 1930 but I think I’ve found Enid (shown as Edith Villiers with mother Catherine Fraser)
- I belive Rafael Vila & Enid Grey were married in 1925, 5 years before Henry’s birth to mother Nora Barrett
I’ve searched US immigration records and passenger lists, and found several possible Nora Barretts (and name variations) from Ireland. I’ve tried to cross-check these to Irish births, US census and other records but found nothing conclusive for Nora. I’d really like to know, for example, when she came to US, her age, where in Ireland she’s from, was Barrett her maiden name, her parents etc. It’s probably a long shot but I can hope!! I live in the UK so don’t have easy access to some US records.
Any thoughts most welcome.
Malcolm