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Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« on: Wednesday 29 April 20 06:44 BST (UK) »
Hi all, I am trying to find information about Lily Gray, nee CONANLAND.
Her marriage printout on her marriage to Charles William Gentry states that she was widowed  on 08/10/1882.
I have been unable to find any reference to this or to her maiden name' She appears to have been living in Auckland in the mid 90's and is on the Women's Suffrage petition.
Haven't found another marriage  or a death for her.
Have attached the wedding printout and the Registry entry in ITMs.
Reid, Coull, Sutherland,Innes. Banff, Scotland
Reed, Tullamore to Sydney, Oz
Joyce, Cork to Sydney, Oz
Havard, Pembroke
Gentry, Gt. Totham, Essex
Hatcher,Essex?
Ebden, Thorncombe, Devon
Boon, Thorncombe, Devon
Osbourne, Aveton Gifford, Devon
Eades, Stafford
Stratton, Bannockrigg, Cockpen, Midlothian, Scotland
de St Laurent,  Malon Normandy France

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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #1 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 07:01 BST (UK) »
Hi Whenu,

The NZSG NZ Brides & Grooms index gives her surname as GRAY, formerly COWANLAND. I can't find any other record of that name in the NZSG Kiwi Index.

The NZSG Marriage Index 1836-1956 confirms her surname as COWANLAND.

There was an 1882 marriage for Charles William GENTRY to a Sarah SOWTER, which probably took place at Thames as well, which might relate to his being a widower by 1885.

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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #2 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 07:11 BST (UK) »
This is Charles's third marriage.
More after info on Lily at the moment, finding hard to track down.
Reid, Coull, Sutherland,Innes. Banff, Scotland
Reed, Tullamore to Sydney, Oz
Joyce, Cork to Sydney, Oz
Havard, Pembroke
Gentry, Gt. Totham, Essex
Hatcher,Essex?
Ebden, Thorncombe, Devon
Boon, Thorncombe, Devon
Osbourne, Aveton Gifford, Devon
Eades, Stafford
Stratton, Bannockrigg, Cockpen, Midlothian, Scotland
de St Laurent,  Malon Normandy France

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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #3 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 07:23 BST (UK) »
Yes, I'm having the same problem. ???

I can't find any mention of COWANLAND or variants on Papers Past, nor can I find any Google search results for that surname, or her father.

Have you contacted the Thames Treasury website to see if they have any information? I can't get any strikes from a search of their website, but a detailed email might get some results.
https://thetreasury.org.nz/

Just found this RootsChat topic dating to 2016, though.
https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=752591.0

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STURTON - Arnold, Nottinghamshire ENG
SUTTRON - All, NRY & DUR ENG
TAYLOR - London ENG
TYLER - London ENG
TERNAN/TIERNAN - Dublin IRL


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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #4 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 07:28 BST (UK) »
With no record of her in NZ I wonder if she died in Australia?

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STURTON - Arnold, Nottinghamshire ENG
SUTTRON - All, NRY & DUR ENG
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TERNAN/TIERNAN - Dublin IRL

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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #5 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 07:40 BST (UK) »
Couldn't find her in the Vic or NSW records.
Have seen the other posts, have met the OP a couple of years back.
His Second wife will be a separate post on her own.
He died in NSW in 1902.
Reid, Coull, Sutherland,Innes. Banff, Scotland
Reed, Tullamore to Sydney, Oz
Joyce, Cork to Sydney, Oz
Havard, Pembroke
Gentry, Gt. Totham, Essex
Hatcher,Essex?
Ebden, Thorncombe, Devon
Boon, Thorncombe, Devon
Osbourne, Aveton Gifford, Devon
Eades, Stafford
Stratton, Bannockrigg, Cockpen, Midlothian, Scotland
de St Laurent,  Malon Normandy France

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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #6 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 07:45 BST (UK) »
If Lily was born in Ireland then it is likely that the name Conanland/Cowanland is a mishearing of Conygham/Cunningham/Cunninham.* There are many variations on the name of her mother Bridget. Houlihan, Halohan/Hoolihan, Hallohan Hoolohan.   

Oh the joy of researching in Ireland!

Also Canningham etc. 

Perhaps she was married and widowed in Ireland or Australia? Or England if the C/ham family tried their luck there. 

* Or other surnames with 'nan or 'han at the end.  Callanan etc.  Callahan

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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #7 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 07:49 BST (UK) »
Ah, that makes sense.

Thanks Shanreagh.

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STURTON - Arnold, Nottinghamshire ENG
SUTTRON - All, NRY & DUR ENG
TAYLOR - London ENG
TYLER - London ENG
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Re: Lily (Lillie) Gray widowed 1882
« Reply #8 on: Wednesday 29 April 20 08:17 BST (UK) »
There is a child born to this couple.

1886/19806   Gentry   Frederick Charles   Lillie   Charles William
death 1887/727   Gentry   Frederick Charles   9M