DNA 3rd cousin and second cousin once removed

[brigidmac]

Have had more matches some dont show up on thru lines but from the same great great grandfather ( possibly different wives)
 I have  grouped them into descendants of each child
I have a theory that men have stronger match than female relatives ...dont know gender of some matches

2c female 351 cm
2c1r female 49cm
2 c 1 r  217. Cm
,2c 1 r male 162


Half 3rd C 58cm 6 segments woman
Half 3c1 R  man

Half 3 c 1 r 25 cm 3 seg woman
Half 3 c1r 19cm 3 segments
Half 3 c 1 r 9cm.

Half 3 c 1 r 23cm.3 segs V

Half , 3 c 1 R man * 32 c 2 seg hes also connected to another line

[brigidmac]

I dont know if my theory about male + female cousins is correct

But my cousin matches more people than me and sometimes than my.mother on our mutual side .

Also the above  relatives all come from a jewish line and even at low cm shared matches show up
I think there were quite a few second cousin marriages

 my  great grandmother s husband  married her neice when she died which complicates things .
The starred match.descends from this couple