Their ages/birth years would help?
There is a problem with the marriage registration on FreeBMD. I think, as there is one male short in the list:
Sep 1850 Guildford 4 187
HARMS Ann
Sep 1850 Guildford 4 30[79] - says no spouse found
CHARMAN James Elston
Likely death:
CHARMAN, ANN 34
GRO Reference: 1865 J Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 31
Possible death:
CHARMAN, JAMES 51
GRO Reference: 1875 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 53
1861:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:Q2MG-TZDC1871:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VRNN-PJH1871, Grace:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VRNN-2RFCHARMAN, HENRY mmn HARMS
GRO Reference: 1854 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 36
Possibles:
Marriage:
Jun 1875 Norwich 4b 257
CHARMAN Henry
YOUNGS Sarah
1881:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:Q278-7CSZ1891:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:4H3K-KN2Children:
CHARMAN,
ELIZABETH ANN mmn YOUNGS
GRO Reference: 1879 S Quarter in NORWICH Volume 04B Page 116
CHARMAN,
ETHEL MARGARET mmn YOUNGS
GRO Reference: 1888 S Quarter in NORWICH Volume 04B Page 141
CHARMAN, ALFRED mmn HARMS
GRO Reference: 1856 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 35
CHARMAN, JOHN mmn HARMS
GRO Reference: 1858 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 38
CHARMAN, GRACE mmn HARMS
GRO Reference: 1861 M Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 44
Marriage:
Dec 1880 Guildford 2a 71
ROKER John
CHARMAN Grace
Deaths:
ROKER, GRACE 62
GRO Reference: 1922 S Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 92 Occasional Copy: A
ROKER, JOHN 73
GRO Reference: 1929 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 139
1881:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:Q277-VCNP1891:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QFD7-8T21901:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:X9X9-YZ91911:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XW84-3W2Children:
ROKER,
GRACE ELLEN mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1880 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 64
ROKER,
ANN mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1882 S Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 68
ROKER,
JOHN mmn CHAVMAN (sic)
GRO Reference: 1885 M Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 70
ROKER,
HARRIET JANE mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1887 J Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 68
ROKER,
CALEB mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1889 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 65
ROKER,
DICK mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1892 M Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 69
ROKER,
ROSE mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1895 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 63
ROKER,
ALLAN AUSTIN mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1899 M Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 76
ROKER,
WALTER EDWARD mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1901 S Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 81
ROKER,
JESSIE mmn CHARMAN
GRO Reference: 1903 D Quarter in GUILDFORD Volume 02A Page 88
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