« Reply #19 on: Friday 31 July 20 22:08 BST (UK) »
Wow, does it always get this heated? I asked a simple question, not intending to start a war. There are two extremes here, let's discuss them, not fight.
I did initially say "Physically she is in good health, but her mind is sadly another matter." We do have Power Of Attorney (POA) and I hadn't actually thought about applying that. However, I almost think that is irrelevant here. We can make financial decisions, residential decisions, health decisions, etc. She is beyond caring about trivialities like letters from 50 years ago, but I do struggle ethically about the letter.
I photographed it and read it. Am I a bad person?
Zaph
No
I agree with no, you are not a bad person.
Regards
Chas
I certainly don't think you're a bad person either. You asked a question and we all gave our personal opinions, which hopefully helped you make a decision you are happy with after you'd weighed up all the pros and cons
Best wishes,
Rena
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