Hi Niccorr, Hello Cousin, your Susan & my Letitia were cousins, living almost next door to each other must have known each other very well as children.
But, back to the drawing board!! I had a John & Susan Magee, in the 1901 census, living in Carrickfergus Road Belfast, now, obviously NOT our John & Susan, although Susan's age fitted. Now I have seen the births of Charles (13/9/1880) & Henry (7/4/1882), that fits with the naming conventions 1st son after paternal grandfather & 2nd son after maternal grandfather (same as in Scotland). John, perhaps died on 24/1/1883.
Apologies if you have done this all before, in the registers of St Joseph's RC Glenavy Susan married a "J Magee", there is no male witness name, the female witness is Kate MeGarry (sister) but in the civil record (via the Ulster Historical Foundation website) "John" is a "Patrick", the female witness is Catherine Megarry & a male witness is Mathew Murray (I believe Susan had an Aunt Letitia who married a John Murray in 1836, perhaps Mathew is a cousin??).
Do you know which McGarry Susan married, 2 McGarry's marrying suggests that they were not related (or closely anyway), might help sorting out who is who.
I have a couple of Felix's on my lists (thought that would be an easy name!).
I have hundreds of McGarry's on my lists, trying to sort them into families, to see who I might be related to. Working in the basis that relatives usually act as witnesses & godparents I have tried shuffle people into families, unfortunately the RC church records stop (online anyway) around the 1880s, making it difficult to match people up and having no census records between 1851 & 1901 doesn't help either.
I live in SE England so I am not familiar with Ireland, trying to get my head round these townlands. I have visited Glenavy about 15 years ago and found a grave in St Joseph's with some of my Letitia's children therein. Letitia, married name Graham, moved to Scotland in 1870, several of her children are buried there, the remainder, excluding my grandmother, emigrated to the USA in the 1890's. There are loads of McGarry's in that churchyard, but a headstone that just says "McGarry Family Grave" is not much help, is it.
It would be very helpful if you could pass on to me any snippets of info you might have.
Regards Michael.