Hi folks.
It took five weeks, but the marriage certificate arrived today! Here are the transcribed details:
1874 Marriage solemnized at Saint Augustine’s Chapel, Paradise Row in the district of Darlington in the County of Durham and York.
No. 52
When Married: 29th June 1874
Name and Surname: James Bainbridge, aged 24. Bachelor (Joiner).
Elizabeth Halliday Dial, aged 24. Spinster (no rank or profession).
Residence: Lawrence Street, Darlington.
Fathers’ Names: Robert Bainbridge (Engine Driver).
Robert Dial (Coal Miner).
Married in the Saint Augustine’s Chapel according to the Rites and Ceremonies of the Roman Catholics by Certificate by me Henry Coll (Clerk).
Witnesses: Robert Bainbridge and Hannah Bainbridge.
Registrar: John Toes.
This is surprising to me in a number of ways. Elizabeth's father is recorded as Robert Dial yet his name is not on her birth certificate and he married Isabella over a year after her birth. I imagine that this was perhaps a politeness in filling out the form.
Elizabeth's age is a year out (she would have been 25). Quite probably a recording error.
No rank or profession is recorded for Elizabeth. She was a domestic in the 1861 census, and I am unable to locate the 1871 census. It seems unusual to me for her not to have had employment.
The biggest surprise is that she married in a Catholic Church. This would have been quite radical for the Dial family as they had a long-standing connection with Protestant churches (mostly Methodist and, later, Presbyterian).
Tentative conclusions? How's this for a possibility: Elizabeth was born to Isabella Sherlock, an unmarried mother aged 18 years. The father was most probably not Robert Dial. Isabella and Robert married in 1850 and Elizabeth was living with them in 1851 aged 2. At some stage between 1851 and 1861 Elizabeth was sent to live with her aunt Margaret, who most probably couldn't have children (no GRO or Durham Online records).
In 1859/60 Robert and Isabella decide to emigrate to England with their only surviving child, Peter. Elizabeth does not go with them, possibly because she has completely bonded with Margaret, or she was not informed of their departure, or she was aware that she wasn't wanted, or she simply refused to go. My money is on a mixture of all four possibilities, with odds favouring her simply deciding she didn't want to go (thanks for the suggestion, Boo). Thereafter Elizabeth holds onto the Dial connection with her name, and goes on to marry but is "forgotten" for whatever reason(s) by her family in Australia.
I'm happy for any suggestions for alternative explanations from anyone. Many thanks again for your fantastic support!
To follow: birth and death details for Elizabeth and James's son's birth and death (awaiting the GRO).
Peter