Hi everyone,
I just found out (2121) that my nan was Roma in the Barns/Mortlake area: Smiths/Lovells/Loveridge/Capel/Whitby
For years I was unable to find my nan's side of the family.
One day, I was helping my partner, David Dighton, to build his family tree online and he said to look for a Roma connection due to the names that I had- Smith/Capel/Whitby.
It took forever to find Sinney (sometimes spelt Sinnie) due to my Uncle Roy thinking it was 'Sinnett', and then once found, her baptism details were incorrectly translated to Simeon, and written as a boy.
Eventually, I discovered that my nan (Ellen Wolstenholme, the maiden name Smith) was born the daughter of Sinney Smith who was married to George Whitby, and the daughter of Jacob Smith and Matilda Capel. It was quite the revelation!
I had sent off for my nan's birth Cert' and it confirmed Sinney and George were my nan's parents.
The connection was also confirmed that Sinney Smith was the daughter of Jacob Smith via her wedding banns to George Whitby. He signed as her father.
All of these documents were found on ancestry.co.uk - I now have a few trees there.
I knew nothing of the Roma connection so this is all new to me, and I have no contact with any family from my nan's side. I don't know anyone from this side of the family anymore.
My mum, Christine (daughter of Ellen), had no idea of Roma side either, it was kept quiet on the Wolstenholme side. Bless her, she was so happy that I found her grandparents as now in her 70's.
I thought by joining that it would help give us a sense of belonging to the world of my nan which we never knew.
I'm happy that 'Sinney' isn't a lost Roma anymore and she and the family will be remembered.
So, if anyone is wondering who 'Simeon Smith' is on Jacob Smith and Matilda Capel's line, it is actually 'Sinney Smith', a female not a boy.
List of connections, they might be helpful for others:
1. Charles Samuel
Smith 1837-1893 - 3rd great-grandfather
Jacob Smith 1860-1901
Son of Charles Samuel Smith
Sinney (Sinnie) (Simeon) Smith 1886-1954Daughter of Jacob Smith
Ellen Whitby 1914-2000
Daughter of Sinney (Sinnie) (Simeon) Smith
Christine Mary Wolstenholme 1950-
Daughter of Ellen Whitby
Tracey-anne McCartney
2. William
Capel 1843-1938 - 3rd great-grandfather
Matilda Filby Capel 1866-1933
Daughter of William Capel
Sinney (Sinnie) (Simeon) Smith 1886-1954Daughter of Matilda Filby Capel
Ellen Whitby 1914-2000
Daughter of Sinney (Sinnie) (Simeon) Smith
Christine Mary Wolstenholme 1950-
Daughter of Ellen Whitby
Tracey-anne McCartney
3. John
Lovell 1797-1879 - 4th great-grandfather
Limpedy Limpetty Catherine Lovell 1825-1915
Daughter of John Lovell
Mignonette (Minnie) Whitby 1851-1940
Daughter of Limpedy Limpetty Caroline Catherine Lovell
George Whitby 1884-1947
Son of Mignonette (Minnie) Whitby
Ellen Whitby 1914-2000
Daughter of George Whitby
Christine Mary Wolstenholme 1950-
Daughter of Ellen Whitby
Tracey-anne McCartney