I am now trying to Find Henry Hayes (Bapt Shipbourne 6 Mar 1831) in the 1841/51 Census but no joy at all!
Father of Henry I believe is John Hayes who married Mary Carter 18 Mar 1823
I can find neither John or Mary in these Census's when I would have expected Henry to have been living with them.
Is this a possibility for Henry age 10 on 1841 census with a Mary HAYS and others, youngest being Amy Hays age 9 months
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MQ2S-DTQ - Wrotham, Kent
looking at the original entry it notes Mary as a widowEDITED ....
sorry I just noticed your post below and that you have Henry on later censuses
Having continued to research the Hayes family I have managed to get back to the grandfather of Henry James namely Henry Hayes b c1832.
Although my research started in Bedfordshire, I quickly found that historically, several generations lived in the Dartford and Wrotham Registration Districts of Kent.
The Grandfather of Henry James was Henry Hayes b c1832 Wrotham who married Mary Collins Sep Qtr 1853 Shipbourne. Mary b c1836
I have them in 1861, 1871 living Dunks Green, Wrotham, 1881 Shipbourne. 1891, 1901 Swanscombe.
for info...to help others looking for 1851/1841 census
Is this who you think are Henry Hayes bn c1832 parents?
1881c Piece: 901 Folio: 62 Page Number: 21
Dunks Green
John
HAYES 78 pob dittoed Shipbourne Ag Lab.
Mary 75 ditto
James
CARTER 66 brother Hadlow Ag. Lab.
1871 Piece: 917 Folio: 60 Page number: 12
Dunks Green
John
HAYES 66 Head ag lab
Mary Hayes 67 Wife Hadow
James
CARTER 57 Hadlow Brother-in-law ag. lab.
Is this Mary Hayes & her brother James Carter on 1861 census? - she is noted as Mar.
Piece: 486 Folio: 118 Page Number: 35
William Mitchel 66
Mary
HAYES 54 Hadlow housekeeper
George Hayes 19 Wrotham son to serv., ag lab.
James
CARTER 49 Hadlow boarder ag lab.
1871census could this be the above George Hayes living Dunks Green
Piece: 920 Folio: 42Page number: 27
George Hayes 28 Head, Wrotham, Ag. lab.
Harriett Hayes 27 Wife
Alice Hayes 9/12 Daughter
Eliza Slatter 65 Mother-in-law