So the marriage certificate you have is for Thomas, not Joseph as you said in reply #19. Is this the marriage on 12 Dec 1857? Who does Mary Ann say is her father?
I think that there are two different Mary Ann CHARLTONs - I have identified them in 1871, one with her grandfather Robert CHARLTON (and presumably children Emily Adelaide and George Robert) at Wall, Northumberland (almost next door is her Uncle John CHARLTON and family); and the other with husband Thomas ROWELL in Escombe, Durham.
In 1861 the unmarried Mary Ann CHARLTON is with her uncle John CHARLTON and family at Wall.
In 1851 she is again with her grandfather Robert CHARLTON at Wall.
Whereas the Mary Ann CHARLTON who married Thomas ROWELL is with husband Thomas and family in Allendale in 1861, and presumably with mother Ann CHARLTON at Wark in 1851.
You said you also have the birth certificates of Emily and George - which Mary Ann CHARLTON were you following?
Modified to add:
Note also that Thomas and Mary Ann ROWELL (nee CHARLTON) are in North Bedburn, Durham in 1881 and Evetham, Durham in 1891, and Bearpark, Durham in 1901. Then widowed Thomas is in Nevilles Cross, Durham in 1911.
Maddy,
I said it was a confusing tangle!
Yes the MC is for Thomas ROWELL and Mary Ann CHARLTON. Interestingly her father is listed as William GRIFFITH on the marriage certificate. Thomas' father listed as Matthew ROWELL
I am beginning to suspect that this Mary Ann CHARLTON isn't my Mary Ann
Here is my tangle as untangled (maybe) so far.
Mary Ann was born in 1841 to Isabella CHARLTON (no father listed on the BC)
Isabella CHARLTON married William ROWELL in 1842 (both fathers still living and both named Robert).
Isabella and William went on to have several kiddos but and died in 1872 (DC in hand). William is listed as her husband so I am pretty confident it is her (the age matches too)
So onto Mary Ann CHARLTON. What I know (or think I know) is the she birthed, at least, a daughter and a son.
Emily Adelaide ROWELL in 1865 (BC shows father as Joseph ROWELL). His occupation is listed as "Commercial Traveler".
George Robert CHARLTON in 1867 (BC shows no father)
Emily Adelaide CHARLTON had a girl in 1886 named?....you guessed it Mary Ann CHARLTON! (BC shows no father listed).
Emily Adelaide CHARLTON married James CARLYLE in 1891 (MC shows no father listed for Emily)
The Emily Adelaide ROWELL could be the red herring but I have been totally unable to locate a birth record for any other Emily Adelaide.
The only certainty I have is the Mary Ann CHARLTON/CARLYLE is correct. I am therefore reasonably sure that the MC for Emily Adelaide CHARLTON and James CARLYLE is correct. Before that....all bets are off. I am still trying to work through it all but time and money seem to be short!
Thanks for your assistance. Much appreciated.
Regards
Kevin