« Reply #17 on: Tuesday 15 June 21 15:34 BST (UK) »
Thanks everyone for your responses!
I have done a DNA test, but to be honest I struggle with the overwhelming number of matches! I am not sure whether anything would come up anyway, as I am descendant from Annie Reeves (second child of Fanny and Freestone), so presumably Dymock Reeves is only Annie’s half brother. But I will keep an eye out!
Thank you Stanwix for sharing similar stories. I have been surprised at how common it is for women to get married while pregnant (Annie Reeves had to get married 3 months before giving birth), but I suppose I have preconceptions about the past which aren’t accurate. Sometimes it’s hard to remember that our ancestors were real people with complicated lives, and were probably living in absolute poverty. I sometimes get bogged down with censuses and birth records etc, but understanding the context of their situation is so important - and interesting!
Of course, I will never know for sure if Fanny moved away to “start afresh” - but making an educated guess is still fun. I am guessing that she wasn’t “shunned” from her neighbours, as she worked as a laundress, and presumably that relied on her being friendly with a number of people.
I also had an interesting thought about this particular case. Fanny gave birth to Arthur Reeves in 1899, when she was around 46 years old - not highly unusual, but still relatively old. She had teenage (unmarried) daughters at this time, so I did wonder if perhaps they got pregnant but Fanny made out it was her baby to avoid the shame. Again, I will probably never know, but it is a possibility nonetheless.
If anyone else has any stories about illegitimate children, I will be very interested to hear them
My 3xgreat grandmother was born in 1835, and her mother in 1784. This means she was 51 when she had her final daughter, who was several years younger than the penultimate child. I think she was actually her granddaughter, and the illegitimate birth was concealed. The baby had her much older sister's first name as a middle name, and that older sister went on to have some more illegitimate children, and she lied on the certs.
Researching:
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DORSET Coombs, Munday
NORFOLK Helsdon, Riches, Harbord, Budery
KENT Roberts, Goodacre
SUSSEX Walder, Boniface, Dinnage, Standen, Lee, Botten, Wickham, Jupp
SUFFOLK Titshall, Frost, Fairweather, Mayhew, Archer, Eade, Scarfe
DURHAM Stewart, Musgrave, Wilson, Forster
SCOTLAND Stewart in Selkirk
USA Musgrave, Saix
ESSEX Cornwell, Stock, Quilter, Lawrence, Whale, Clift
OXON Edgington, Smith, Inkpen, Snell, Batten, Brain