Yes MS and others my reply at was a little tongue in cheek.
Unlike many families there seems to be lots of information on a number of Brannigan families both RC & CoI, across parts of Ireland that have relatively good records, not all the Counties do, and with a number of US records that are useful to check as they have good census records, not all countries do.
OP the way to harness this information and that of the researchers on this thread who love researching, is to be as clear as you can about the records that you have and put them up here. This means a stepped back process from the ancestors whose records you have no doubts about. That can be the starting point and then you can give us
the names you believe are their father mother siblings BDM, locations
aunts uncles
the names you believe are their grandfather, grandmother g/aunts & uncles
Or, seeing as we are looking at Ellen/Helen
1 What are her Appleton/Brannigan children's names in date order so BDM, locations
2 Do you know of any of the siblings of Ellen/Helen? These would be the aunts and uncles of her Appleton/Brannigan children
3 What are the names of Ellen/Helen's grandchildren
Incidental aspects such as gravestone are very important.....sometimes they may give a birth location.
So referring to John A Brannigan's gravestone you say it has his father and other family names attached but then do not list them.
We want to help. We like to work methodically as that will give us the best chance of a break through. Your knowledge of your family is essential and to have it written down means we can double check before going backwards or forwards and saves us going back over territory. Our musings are an important part of that.
I am sure we will get there.......!
ETA
Just looking at the Brannigan gravestone the link does give access to other brannigan burials here and several other NY cemeteries. Have you looked at all of these to see if others of your known family are buried there? There seem to be at least 58 others in this cemetery alone.