Hi Twiggy -
I have a Christmas present for you:
the family of your John De La Haye (b. abt 1843) married to Harriet:
1871 census St Brelade, Pont Marquet
DE LA HAYE
John Marr 29 seaman born Jersey
Harriet wife marr 28 born Jersey
Harriet daug 5 scholar born Jersey
John son 3 scholar born Jersey
and in
1861 census:
DE LA HAYEPhilip Head marr 47 ag lab St Brelade
Francoise wife 47 St Brelade
John son 19 unmarr sailor St Brelade
George son 14 sailor St Brelade
Fanny daug 7 scholar [
should this be 17 - see 1851?]Esther daugh 16 dressmaker
and in
1851 census, St Aubin High Street
DE LA HAYE
Fanny marr 37 servant Jersey St Brelade
John 9
Fanny 7
George 3
Jane 5
[It seems that the father, Philip ,was away on census day]
I also have his birth details:
Jean fs Philippe De La Haye et Francoise Le Cornu
b. 18.08.1841 bapt 29.08 1841
[God parents: Jean Simon et Elizabeth Arthur sa femme]
and his marriage:
6.04.1865 St Brelade
DE LA HAYE Jean age 23 St Brelade, son of Philippe
SIMON Harriet R A age 21 St Brelade daug of Jean D
[NB the sponsors at his baptism may have become his in-laws!]
and also Harriet's birth details:
Harriet Rachel Anne SIMON born 16.07.1843 bapt 6.08.1843
parents Jean David SIMON, macon
[mason or bricklayer] et Eliz. ARTHUR
[Sponsors: Nicholas Renouf jun et Ann Renouf sa soeur]
I hope this is useful - and please let me know if you would like any further look-ups on this family. I don't get to the Jersey Archives very often but I can have a look in the New Year.
Have a good Christmas
Mike E