Osprey,
Thanks very much for your reply. This family gets more and more confusing but interesting. Jane Edwards! Well I missed that one. I've sent off for the certificates, thanks for your help. But I'm so confused. Tell you why, firstly I found my ancestor (Mary Williams), parents Walter and Ann, on 1851 Census, seemed simple enough, Mary youngest child 3 months, thought easy, will get bapt. how wrong I was. No certificate for Mary Williams father Walter. So I searched through the whole census, in 1841 Walter and Ann with 2 children; 1851 - Walter and Ann with other children, including my ancestor; then in 1861 Walter was a widow, in 1871 he had remarried but the name was Jane or Ann or June, then in 1881, the name is Ann for the wife, and only 2 children I assume from the second marriage. However, I noticed on my ancestor's marriage cert. that one of the Witnesses was a Thomas Grant, I then saw him on the 1871 with Walter and Ann as a step son alongside another girl called Ann Thomas, step daughter. So I knew I had the right family, then in 1891 it clearly states Jane Williams living on own means, widow with her daughter. I thought I would try and trace the stepson, Thomas Grant, who was a witness at my ancestor's marriage, if I could find his mother marrying the father, then I would have more details on the father to then find the right first marriage certificate etc. Turns out the mother of Thomas Grant was an Ann Grant nee Smith and in 1861 Thomas was living with a family the head a Margaret Thomas some 79+ and his relationship was nephew. So when Jane Edwards came into the picture - I thought ah Jane could be, but who the hell is Ann Grant nee Smith and why was Thomas living with the family as stepson if the wife is Jane Edwards, how many wives does a man need?
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I know the census isn't always correct but it changes twice from Ann to Jane, so off to find if I can make it all fit.