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According to my transcript of the complete Stackpole P.R.s there are 2 Richard Henry Ellistons buried ;
Richard Henry Elliston of Stackpole Quay buried 16 Sept 1833 aged 19 months by Francis George Leach
Richard Henry Elliston of Stackpole Farm in the parish of St Petrox buried 24 Jan 1832 aged 36 years by Francis George Leach.
Again according to my transcript of Stackpole ;
Richard Elliston of St Petrox married Anne Griffiths of Stackpole Elidor by licence on the 26 Oct 1828 in front of Francis George Leach. Both signed their names in the parence of Caroline Woodington, 2nd witt is unreadable.
FindMyPast have images of the Stackpole registers and I agree the second witness is pretty much unreadable, although the first name may be possibly Ezra but it's not good. I only found Richard Henry Elliston senior's burial on FindMyPast thanks to the Welsh Newspapers because they have indexed it as Ellistor.
With reference to the mrge of George Butler to Elizabeth Elliston, the newspaper at the time has the wrong date and fails to note that James Elliston of Kings Mill Monkton is in fact deceased.
Yes it's interesting they don't mention the fact James is deceased, yet his name actually doesn't appear on the actual marriage entry, simply saying that her father is deceased.
Have you considered any relationship between the Pembroke Ellistons and the Ellistons of Tenby and Haverfordwest?
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Owen Ap Benfro
I've not looked at Tenby but the James Elliston, carpenter, who appears on Census as born Wiston I suspect may be James Elliston of Kings Mill's illegitimate son. That James' baptism in Wiston in 1820 says illegitimate son of James Ellison of Kings Mill, servant, and Mary James. As far as I can see, the only James Ellison, or Elliston for that matter, in the area at that time was the Kings Mill one and I can't believe the parish is that large anyway. James Elliston of Kings Mill is listed as a miller on later records but unfortunately the Castlemartin PRs are missing from FindMyPast for the baptisms of his two children so I don't know what he is listed as in 1825 and 1828. I somehow doubt he would have been a fully fledged miller anyway in the 1820s, but I may be wrong. Interestingly James Elliston the carpenter is listed as Eliston on his marriage index entry and the 1851 Census, I can't find him on the 1841 Census. His marriage doesn't appear on FindMyPast and as it's a distant sideline, I'm a little reluctant to purchase the certificate at present.
I live nowhere near Pembroke so the Archives isn't really an option to search the Cawdor papers for Richard at present.
I suspect that James and Richard were brothers because I do have a James Elliston baptised 1794 and a Richard Henry Elliston baptised 1796 who disappear when the rest of the family move to Essex. I can't find a burial for them in Suffolk and to date there is no sign of them in Essex either. This was the reason I was interested in your comment that the Elliston family originated in Essex to see if it tied in with other evidence I have.
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