I've just re-read what I put there, apols if it sounded as if i was coming across sarcastic.
It's just how I read the the last post to me.
Yes like said before in all my posts, I have no reason to believe he's alive, always been told he's dead and obviously I'm going to research a dead person. I would imagine he's dead by now my grandmother, his half sister was 85:when she passed away last year. He was at least 8 yrs older than her.
you see it not easy for me as I'm just learning how to do this. My grandmother's mother was married 3 times and had children with all her husband's. My grandmother came off the Malony side which was the name of her mum's 3rd husband.
So again thanks to all who have been replying and looking for records I appreciate it.
I can't do anything about the elderly relatives who have taken the trouble to contact one of the volunteers on this site with concern about me not being able to confirm the death. I don't know what I'm supposed to do about that if I've always been told he died along time ago, am not to bother look at that side of the family? I 've not done anything intentionally or maliciously.
That I can be certain of.
So you'll just bare with my inexperience of using this forum and my rubbish researching skills for the time being.
Many thanks