Hi,
Where have you found Agnes on the 1861 Census please?
1841 -She's in Craigie age recorded as 30 with husband Robert and 4 children.
1851- She's in Riccarton age recorded as 47 with 5 children ( husband Robert is probably the 49 year old farm servant recorded at a farm in Craigie).
There is a death registration at Riccarton in 1865 of an Agnes Gray - but the index has no age or mother's maiden name recorded. Not to say the original doesn't have relevant information recorded i.e marital status, spouse's name, maiden name, informant's name.
Not sure if this is your Agnes - I was struggling to locate her on 1861 Census.
Looby
Thank you! You've had more luck than I did! As for 1841 and 1851 Censuses, the info you had is correct. The 1861 info that Chempat found is also correct. This is complicated because at the exact same time, there was another Gray Family in Ayrshire who had children with similar names and the parents in that family were also called Agnes and Robert! Additionally, Agnes's maiden name is rather unusual despite that I have two ancestors from separate branches sharing the similar surname. But I do appreciate all that you did to find these information including the 1851 Census for the McClounan family.