Hi Monica
You see I thought I was tracking a William Graham born 1801 in Sutherland parents William Graham and Catherine Ross (from the IGI).
It is a long, long story but I'll try to give you the just Monica. John Fleming & Janet Ross had five children in Dowally Parish (1793-1803). Eventually all five of these children married and by the early 1850's all had immigrated to Canada with their spouses and children! So ended my line in Perthshire, Scotland.
However no one was ever able to find John and Janet's marriage and thus, no real confirmation on his Fleming parentage and nothing for Janet Ross other than supposedly she came from north in Rosshire. So no moving backwards on this couple
However, from some writings of one of the grandchildren of John Fleming and Janet Ross, done in the very late 1890's, they indicated that their Grandmother Janet Ross had a sister Catherine Ross and she had married a William Graham and their son, William Graham, was in Dowally raising his family along side his Fleming cousins circa, 1825 onwards....
Thus I thought the William married to Elspeth Sim fit perfectly, as there was some knowledge of William's children and their spouses and these fit with this William and Espeth!
But now that you pointed out the below...maybe I have another mystery to solve! As it is interesting that a Janet Fleming is the now the likely mother of this particular William Graham and his brother...!
PERHAPS, the Fleming grandson had his story mixed up?? I am not sure who this Janet Fleming's parents were?? I'll have to see at IGI if I can find her marriage to William Graham?? This is getting more mind boggling by the moment! Maybe she was a sister of John Fleming?? What are the chances that John Fleming had a sister who married a William Graham and Janet Ross had a sister who married a WIlliam Graham and which of their sons is this William!
A big thanks...in the meantime I had decided since I still had just enough credits left at Scotlandspeople I would see if I could find them on the 1841 and I did
However the entry is a bit different
? I am thinking, as you later pointed out, it was two Graham families living together and I am guessing I have the first page and perhaps the others are on the next page of the census?
The Census lists them as follows:
William 49
William 11
Elspeth 43 (Peter is crossed out before the name)
Janet 12
Isabella 7
Margaret 3
Margaret Keir 30
This is all that is listed.
This would make sense as the family I am thought I was seeking only had these children I believe and a daughter Elizabeth. And the others?? Not sure but they must be listed as perhaps the children of James Graham 53? The John, Janet#2, and Helen?
And like you indicated James is likely the brother of William....
Any thoughts,
thanks
Susan