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The Keith and Cecil Tingman on the 1911 census appear to be brothers of James and William. I found the family listed as Eingman on the 1901 census with 7 children including twins Keith and Cecil. If you don't have it, here is a link to the image at Library and Archives Canada:
http://www.rootschat.com/links/05l7/ In 1911, Honor is in the household of her daughter Fern and Fern's husband Joseph Blais in Quebec. None of Honor's other children are with them.
I did a google search and found a inquiry at Rootsweb like yours asking what Finlay Home was. The response given was it was an orphanage. Perhaps Honor wasn't able to look after the younger children after the death of her husband and gave or was forced to give them up. Have you found the other children on the 1911 census?
In case you don't have them, here are links to the Attestation Papers for:
James Havelock Tingman, born 4 Dec 1893 whose next of kin is listed as Lily Maud Tingman:
http://www.rootschat.com/links/05l5/William Tingman, born 29 Mar 1895 whose next of kin is listed as his mother, Mrs. Tingman who was living in Champlain, New York:
http://www.rootschat.com/links/05l6/Jacquie
Canada: Patterson, Brown, Haidenger/Heidinger, Meyer, Johnston(e), Gorsuch, Kitchin/Kitchen
United States: Patterson, Smith, Brown, Vance, Bower(s), Newberry, Best, Love, Gorsuch
England (Northumberland): Brown, Whitfield, Henderson
Scotland (Glasgow, Edinburgh, Fife, East Lothian): Johnston(e), Bell, Galloway, Campbell, Robertson, Williamson, Thomson, Crawford
Germans from Russia: Haidenger/Heidinger, Meyer, Meach, Lorenz