Hi Julie
You raise a number of enquiry lines - but concentrating initially on the father of your gt-grandmother Jane in his married man/father years:
1841: Weeley Heath, Weeley (St Osyth, Tendring Hundred) Essex
HO107 - Piece 338; Book: 29 / Folio: 4 / Pg3
Robert GREEN 45, Ag Lab - Y
Elizabeth GREEN 50 - Y
John DEEVES 15 - Y
Robert's birth indicated abt 1791-1795
Elizabeth's birth indicated abt 1786-1791
1851: Weeley Heath, Weeley, ( (St Osyth, Tendring) ESSEX
HO107 / Piece: 1779 / Folio: 141 / Pg7
Head: Robert GREEN 50, Ag Lab, b Ardleigh, Essex
Wife: Sarah 38, b Bracknoick, Radnorshire
Son: John 6, b Weeley
Son: Octavis 4, b Weeley
Dau: Sarah A 18mths, b Weeley
Lodger: William SYROTT 75, wid, Pauper. Ag Lab, b St Bentley Essex
Robert's birth indicated as 1801. When he died (between 1851 & 1861) what age was recorded?
I see from older topics, that the 1841 Census above has been presented to you before as a possibility - there are many of the same families/people surrounding both Robert GREENs on the 1841 and 1851, to indicate this is the same man in the same place in the two Census. . If the Elizabeth in 1841 is his wife - there are no relationship indicators in the 1841, she could be a sister for eg! - then she was alive in 1841 and therefore cannot be the death in 1839. An Elizabeth GREEN death is registered Dec Qtr 1841 in Tendring - has this death been looked at?
What, on the other hand makes you believe (documentation etc?) your Robert GREEN was first married to an Elizabeth KNAPP/KNOPP and that she died in 1839?
1861: Clacton Road Cottages, Weeley (St Osyth, Tendring) ESSEX
RG9 / Piece: 1092 / Folio: 178/ Pg4
Head: Sarah GREEN 41, widow, Laundress & Lodging House. b Wales
Son: John 15, Ag Lab, b Weeley
Son: Octavious 13, Ag Lab, b Weeley
Dau: Ann 11, b Weeley
Dau: Jane 5, b Weeley
Lodger: David ADAMS 25, unm, Woodman, b Weeley
Lodger: William SCOTT 85, wid, Parish Allowance, b Thorp Le Soken, Essex
When Robert GREEN and Sarah WATKINS married in St Brides's:
What was the full transcript of what is says for Roberts's father?
Cheers
AMBLY