Hi Linda,
Myself ?- I don't know most Purdy's in Antrim .
my own G grandfather had all girls and only two boys, one who couldn't have children, my grandmother's eldest brother had a load of sons.
My research is basically around the Broughshane and Ballymena areas,
Is the name common ? I don't think it's overly common in Northern Ireland . if you look at the phone book and such, it also doesn't seem to be very common in the past either.
Have you tried BT phone book. I've just put Purdy and Northern Ireland in the search box for you , it returned 50 results, Belfast returned only 6. There are a couple in Armagh (where
David Stanley died)
http://www.thephonebook.bt.com/publisha.content/en/index.publisha#There will be lots more of course as not everyone is in the phone book these days ( many people are x directory and then there are such things not owning a landline anymore)
On 192 site , the electoral rolls( I haven't got a sub with them, so can't look at the full details) . There are only a few Purdy's around Belfast in the recent electoral rolls ( not all will be listed - if they opted out of being public)
http://www.192.com/people/It depends on how much you want to get in contact with their family, you could view the addresses on 192 com looking at the most current dates (2013 to 2014) for all the Purdy names in the areas that your interested in and write to them . Tell them in writing why you are looking for the family of the late Shelia and Stanley Purdy, and explain the reasons why.
Have you come across Shelia or Stanley's obituary online by googling (I've come across these but don't know if it is yours (?) )
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http://www.highbeam.com/doc/1P2-10769815.html http://www.highbeam.com/doc/1P2-10769590.html And then there is this one for Stanley who seems is David Stanley - he must have just been know by his middle name ( it looks to be him because the other people mentioned fit with the names on Sheila's death notice)
http://classifieds.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/advert/northern-ireland/family-notices/death-notices/39222/Purdy-David-Stanley-Death Have you though of writing to the stated Funeral director who dealt with Stanley's funeral or the church where Shelia's funeral took place . Maybe you could ask them to pass on your letter to their family.
Just a few suggestions which you probably have already tried or though of yourself.
Hope that helps
Kind Regards