Little tip
After making an issue, requesting for help on this website, even if you later get/find offline help yourself (Keep that to yourself-does not matter if later duplicated), by refusing help offered now! may put members off helping you in your future request for help! with any of your other ancestry.
Hi dobfarm,
I take your tip above but my only reason for refusing your help was that I felt uncomfortable that you were willing to go so far out of your way on my behalf. I didn't feel right you putting yourself out to such an extent. I didn't mean to sound ungrateful I promise you. However, I see that the day was something which you just took in your stride whereas to me it sounded a major undertaking. I do appreciate what you've done to help me in my research honestly I do.
Btw my gran died in 1969 and figured quite a lot in my early years. She didn't have any mental issues at all. She was a workaholic holding down many cleaning jobs for various local firms and large houses. In the 1911 census she was working as a live-in servant at a small hotel near Sheffield city centre.
Thanks again for all your suggestions. Feel as though we are creeping up on the truth and shall get there before too long.
Towdlass