I located my OH's cousin who died a baby and found that as it was a common grave the first person who could prove direct line to any one buried in the grave could claim it. Someone related to another person in the grave has done this and not erected any stone, either to their own relative or ours!
We, nor her siblings, cannot erect a stone as we do not own the grave. We could have an inscription placed elsewhere stating she is buried in cemetery; i.e. on another grave that we own.
I would love to have a gravestone on every relatives grave but unfortunately I could not afford the cost of the purchase of the graves not to mention those of the headstones as well.
