Sorry this is long but I'm trying to wrap my head around all this, so here's my take:
My dilemma is tracing the Ross that adopted Frederick White Thomson in Hong Kong. Fred was the youngest born to William Mitchell Thomson and his wife Harriet in Hong Kong. Fred Thomson was born in 1896.
Both of his parents died about 1901 and his sisters were probably not in a position to care for him so the responsibility was taken by a ROSS family of Hong Kong. Fred became FRED WHITE THOMSON ROSS.
The ROSS father is said to have been an engineer with the Hong Kong Waterworks and Sanitation Dept.
The THOMSON family and the ROSS family must have known each other well and everyone was in touch with each other on a day to day basis, but Fred lived with the ROSS family in Hong Kong.
The ROSS family also had a son, JOHN MCDONALD ROSS who lists his date of birth as Dec 1, 1890 in TAIN, SCOTLAND. He emigrated to the USA in 1914 from Hong Kong, where he married one of the THOMSON girls (Fred’s sister Lillian) and raised his family in Alameda California. He died there in 1929.
In one family member’s Genealogy, this other son, JOHN MCDONALD ROSS, was also said to have been adopted. The live relatives of JOHN MCDONALD ROSS today, believe he was a natural son but we have no proof either way. They say he was from Tain, which could be true. They say he left Scotland at 16 and joined the English army for 6 years, then became an engineer. He married in San Francisco in 1914 to Fred’s sister. His father would have had to be in Hong Kong already to adopt Fred (between 1901 and 1913) if he died in 1913?
Fred eventually went to work at George Falconer’s Jewelry, which was managed by a WILLIAM ROSS.
Fred Thomson Ross later either owned or had a share in the Falconer's Jewelry store, which he sold to his sister Ellen’s sons when he retired.
Fred Thomson Ross retired to England and died in Eastbourne in 1975.
My conclusions are that WILLIAM ROSS of Falconers Jewelry was either Fred Thomson’s adoptive father or somehow related to him, maybe his brother?
This JOHN ROSS: (Could the Ross you mention, father to John McDonald Ross, connect with this entry in Wills & Testaments on
www.scotlandspeople.gov.ukJohn Ross 6/1/1914 - overseer of water works, Hong Kong, d. 24/10/1913 at Edinburgh, testate.
Inverness Sheriff Court SC29/44/56)
I think that the above mentioned is the adoptive father. His other son JOHN MCDONALD ROSS might have followed in the engineering trade and Fred may have been introduced to Falconer’s through a relative of John Ross, as I mentioned, maybe a brother. Coincidence that one of the children with the name William Ross on the census (1871?) was an apprentice watchmaker.
The JOHN ROSS from HONG KONG WATERWORKS could have returned to UK before he passed away. It’s doubtful there was more than one John Ross with that position, in Hong Kong at that time, who died in UK. I think it’s the right John Ross.
Sorry to have taken so much of everyone's time. This is a real poser!
I appreciate the help as always
Brian
PS: SEEMEX came from my going to "See Mexico" back in '98 and I needed an e-mail address.