Your threads have been merged and I am a bit confused again. I might have added to it by trying to answer in different places.
However, I will just try to summarise the various records and see what anyone thinks
As I explained I thought I would have a look over everything to see if anything new jumps out at me
10th February 1879
Owen Weston widower Sergeant A S C and
Elizabeth Fanning 60 Rathmines Upper Father James Fanning, Farmer
Witnesses
William Havelock Bailey and Ellen
11th February 1880. Already noted elsewhere
James Soames and
Bessie Joanes (father James, a Farmer)
Witness
Martha Murphyhttps://civilrecords.irishgenealogy.ie/churchrecords/images/marriage_returns/marriages_1880/11026/8032174.pdf23rd March 1881
James Soanes and
Elizabeth Fanning already noted elsewhere but address of Elizabeth is 51 Upper Rathmines and Father James Fanning farmer
Witnesses
W H Bailey and Fannie Bailey
https://civilrecords.irishgenealogy.ie/churchrecords/images/marriage_returns/marriages_1881/10991/8018801.pdf16th July 1884
Arthur Heartfield and
Elizabeth Soanes (already noted elsewhere)
Witness
Martha MurphyThe witness W H BaileyDecember 10th 1879
William Havelock Bailey Musician (Father Thomas) and
Esther Fanning (Father James Fanning deceased)
https://civilrecords.irishgenealogy.ie/churchrecords/images/marriage_returns/marriages_1879/11082/8055546.pdf8th November 1882
William Havelock Bailey musician to Mary Boyne
W H B is a Bachelor on both marriages.
Everybody here seems to be single at point of marriage apart from Owen Weston in the first marriage.
The various Elizabeths might all be different but they all have a father James, a farmer.
I don’t know what to think.