In case nothing turns up on Alice, there is a group called Reclaim the Records that is currently trying to get an index of New York state marriage records. If Alice & Mr. Lubeck married in Nassau or Suffolk county (the 2 counties that make up Long Island), they should turn up on that index. Reclaim the Records has had success with this sort of thing in the past, so I'm hopeful they will be on this request also. The NY state marriage up to (I believe) 1948 is available in a few libraries around the state, but unfortunately it's not readily accessible yet.
Mary's husband William was retired from the fire department as of the 1930 census. It looks like this is probably him:
https://archive.org/stream/reportfiredepar04deptgoog/reportfiredepar04deptgoog_djvu.txtHis Honor, the Mayor, made the presentation as follows :
The Bennett medal for 1895 to Fireman 1st grade William H. Behler,
Engine Company No. 35, awarded to him for a rescue described as
follows in the report for that year :
"Fireman William H. Behler, of Engine Company No. 35, rescued Mrs. Carmela Amaro and child at the fire No. 409 East One Hundred and Twelfth street, Station 737, at 8.53 A. M., on the 13th of January, under the following circumstances : Mrs. Amaro appeared at the fourth-story window, front, shrieking wildly for help, as she clasped a three-months-old child to her breast. She could not reach the fire-escape from the window at which she stood, on account of the smoke and heat, and Hook and Ladder Company No. 14 had not yet arrived. The woman was about to jump to the street when Fireman Behler appeared at the fourth-story window of No. 407, which is next door. He leaned out of the window and, while some citizens held him by the legs, reached over
to where the woman stood. She passed her child to him and then swung herself into his arms, and Behler landed both safely on the floor of the adjoining flat. The Chief of Eleventh Battalion, in reporting the occurrence, says : ' I consider that the prompt action of Fireman Behler pre-
vented serious consequences and was a personal risk, for which I recommend that his name be placed on the Roll of Merit.'