Oh, thank you so much, Bookbox!!!
I am equally impressed every time!!! How wonderful! This was great work!
I will be very interested to hear if you all agree with me in my conclusions.
First, let us start with the information we had beforehand - From the ever invaluable Kate Emerson's Who's Who of Tudor Women:
FRANCES AYLMER (d.1540) (maiden name unknown)Frances Aylmer (also spelled Aelmerand Elmer) was a lady of the privy chamber to Princess Mary Tudor from at least 1525 until 1533 and returned to her service in 1536. She served as Mary’s proxy when Mary was godmother to one of the children of Lord William Howard. In mid-July 1533, Thomas Cromwell wrote to Lord Hussey, Chamberlain of Mary’s household, ordering him to have Mary’s jewels and plate inventoried and placed in the custody of Frances Aylmer. This did not happen. The countess of Salisbury, who was Lady Mistress of the household, refused to comply unless she received written orders from the king himself. Frances is probably the same Frances Aelmer whose will was proved March 21, 1540, since she makes reference in it to Sir William and Lady Butts (Margaret Bacon), who were also members of Mary’s household. In a query to Notes and Queries in 1896, citing that will, the writer suggests that Frances might have been the mother of John Aylmer, Bishop of London (1520/21-June 3, 1594). This is certainly a possibility. The Oxford DNB entry for Aylmer list his parents as unknown. Online sources say he was the younger son of John Aylmer of Aylmer Hall in Tilney, Norfolk (John Aylmer had another son, Sir Robert Aylmer) but do not give life dates or a name for this senior John Aylmer’s wife.
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Now, from the very start this did not strike me as the will of a woman who left behind unsupported minor children. John Aylmer, the later Bishop of London, would not have been a bishop at this time. Rather, he would have been a 19-year-old student at Cambridge, at the sufferance of his patron, Henry Grey, 3rd Marquis of Dorset.
Furthermore, history has given him an elder brother, Sir Robert. We also know that an Anne Aylmer, a young girl at the time, was mentioned in the will of Thomas Grey, 2nd Marquis of Dorset, in 1530.
And yet Frances Aylmer mentions none of these people.
Now, the following is pure speculation and conjecture, though based on the (few) facts that we have.
From the very start, this will struck me as having been written by someone who has made a makeshift family and is leaving all of their wordly goods to them.
Something about the tone of the will also strikes me as very
young. (Feel free to disagree!) As does the list of goods she distributes.
In search of further clues to the Aylmer family I went to the National Archive website, and found, among other documents of middling to little interest, this:
Short title: Aylmer v CursonPlaintiffs: Frances, and Anne daughters and heirs and executors of Elizabeth, late the wife of Edmund Aylmer, gentleman.
Defendants: John Curson, grandson of Johanne, formerly the wife of the said Edmund.
Subject: Arrears of annuity charged by Roger Appulton and John Nethersole on the manor of Ingoldisthorpe.
(Decree endorsed).
Norfolk.
Date: 1515-1518
Held by: The National Archives, Kew
http://discovery.nationalarchives.gov.uk/details/r/C7468961Now, these two girls/ladies/women are both obviously still unmarried, as no husbands are mentioned in the suit. Furthermore, they are orphans, both of their parents, Edmund Aylmer, gentleman, their father, and their mother, Elizabeth, having passed away.
As we see, the names of the female plaintiffs fit perfectly with the two names that we have: Frances and Anne.
Furthermore, the suit takes place in Norfolk, the same county that John Aylmer was born in.
Ingoldisthorpe in Norfolkhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IngoldisthorpeThere appears to have been some kind of the perception (?) through the years that Princess Mary Tudor had no companions of her own age when she was sent to Ludlow, as I have seen people argue against this as if it were an often repeated established fact.
If indeed that is the case, it is in the event patently untrue. If we go back to the list I posted at the beginning of this thread, Mistress Katherine Mountecue was the granddaughter of Margaret Pole, Lady Salisbury, the Princess's governess, and probably born sometime between 1516-1518. Lady Katherine Grey, the daughter of the 2nd Marquis of Dorset, was probably born around the same time, making them both either the same age or between one and two years younger or older than the Princess.
(Information about Katherine Mountecue here:
http://e.bangor.ac.uk/4009/2/DX207809_1_0001.pdf)
It is therefore not unlikely that they would have had another girl of around this age with them.
Whatever their relationship in later life (Katherine Grey is not specifically mentioned in the will, though she might be one of the unnamed 'fellowes'), the number of ladies who went into Wales with the Princess is such that in the eight (!) years they served in the household of Princess Mary Tudor together they must have had some degree of contact. Perhaps that is how the Aylmers entered into the lives of the Greys?
Because it is an historical fact that they did.