Was there a marriage?
There were three kids born to a Mary WISHLADE at Spalding (no father named)
1832 Frances (Spalding workhouse in 1841)
1836 John
1839 Bales (died 1839)
If these are the wrong kids, you must tell us who the right ones are.

The 1841 census has
Deeping Fen
Mary WISHLADE 30 FemServ (NOT Lincs
Could she have been the MW bap in Herefordshire in 1811? Was she the MW who married in Herefordshire in 1846?