J in Canada, I happened to be in the same area again today and this time I found the military cemetery, unfortunately I didn't have my cmera with me but here are some pics taken with my mobile phone.
The gardens and graves are in surprisingly good condition so there is obviously somebody looking after the site. It is winter here and very very dry, the grass had recently been burnt but I think it was a controlled fire as there appeared to be no damage caused.
As SAWGP said, the site is at Bruntville near the town of Mooi River (1.5 hours inland from Durban). If you use Google Earth and go to 29/1313'00.07" South and 30/00'44.31" East and I would estimate this is where Private Maylard rests. The military cemetery is in the tree on the right and a civilian cemetery on the left.
As you can see on Google Earth, the cemetery is about 3/4's surrounded by a low cost housing development. I hope that the superstitions of the locals means they don't touch any of the graves. This also makes it dangerous to visit the cemetery.
If you want copies of the original pictures please PM me an email address and I will send them to you (about 20 photos of 1 meg each). Excuse the quality, but they are taken with a mobile phone cam.
(Photos to follow )