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The Common Room / A bit of a dilemma thats complicated
« on: Tuesday 10 April 12 12:53 BST (UK) »Hi Everyone,
I was recently contacted by a distant relative (my fathers cousins daughter) looking for information about her grandmother and her grandmothers family. The ladies father had been led to believe that his mother had died when he and his three siblings were quite young.
Through alot of research and contact with other distant family members I have found that my fathers aunt left her husband ( the reason why is unknown), however she went on to have 6 more children.
During the course of my research, I have also found that two of the ladies fathers siblings have a different mother to him and his sister.
I honestly feel at this moment in time that I shouldnt pass on any of the information I have found out to this lady as I dont want to open a can of worms so to speak or upset her or her father and the family he has grown up with.
I just wondered if anyone else in the course of thier research had come across something like this and how you dealt with it.
NettieS