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Quote from: Sandrafamilytree on Thursday 12 October 23 10:41 BST (UK)

Quote from: Blue70 on Thursday 12 October 23 10:14 BST (UK)

Quote from: Sandrafamilytree on Thursday 12 October 23 09:56 BST (UK)

Quote from: Blue70 on Thursday 12 October 23 09:18 BST (UK)

I'm sure there's a lot of good contributors to Find A Grave but I had a bad experience with them when Ancestry hints alerted me to information that had been taken from one of my websites and used to not only say where and when they were buried but to build biographies. Some information is family folklore and can be quite sensitive and is not what you want to see on a grave site. Some information evolves over time and the grave site remains stuck in time while original research has moved on. Some contributors just want to hoover up other people's information and are careless when it comes to accuracy and etiquette.


C

Just wondering - after your bad experience - did you contact the Find a Grave contributor and ask them to remove the sensitive information? Hopefully they did?

They denied copying it. It was a very frustrating experience. I remember telling them all the mistakes they made copying the information I was trying to get them to correct them. I washed my hands of it all in the end and put it down to experience. I'm more careful now about posting burial details. It also put me off research in general to an extent because there are horrible people out there that can steal your stuff and do things with it and it's too much bother.


C

That's a shame to hear.

I wouldn't have copied information in that way in the first place, but if someone contacted me and pointed out potential errors in my research, I'd like to think I would have the common sense and good grace to listen and make appropriate corrections.

I suppose it's possible that the Find a Grave support team would have been willing to help, especially if any sensitive information needed to be removed.

I've just had a look and it looks like some things have been changed since I last looked but there's a very obvious mistake of a relative who emigrated to Australia being on Find A Grave as buried in England. I'm not going to look further it's not worth the work now. I see that the contributor has now died perhaps their lack of manners was down to their age or health issues or maybe they just got too big for their boots with their access to information.


C

I know you have decided not to pursue it, but if the contributor has died, it might be fairly straightforward to contact Find a Grave support and ask to take over that memorial, and then you could correct it properly.

I'm sure there's a lot of good contributors to Find A Grave but I had a bad experience with them when Ancestry hints alerted me to information that had been taken from one of my websites and used to not only say where and when they were buried but to build biographies. Some information is family folklore and can be quite sensitive and is not what you want to see on a grave site. Some information evolves over time and the grave site remains stuck in time while original research has moved on. Some contributors just want to hoover up other people's information and are careless when it comes to accuracy and etiquette.


C

Just wondering - after your bad experience - did you contact the Find a Grave contributor and ask them to remove the sensitive information? Hopefully they did?

Thanks for the update! I'm certainly curious to know who has been chosen.

One of my research interests is the surname SMITH in the North East. (Yes, I know... )

I have a SMITH ancestor who died as a young child. She was born and died between censuses. Her birth and death were both registered in a particular name. She was baptised with a completely different name.

I ‘inherited’ very, very few family documents but I recently found – in an old tin – an invoice from the funeral director for ‘grave dressing’ so I know where she was buried and I have a plot number.

As far as I am aware, all the other trees on Ancestry have identified only her three siblings.

There was no FindaGrave entry for her, so I have created one.

I thought it would be helpful for anyone researching that family to know about the fourth child and to know about the difference between her registered name and her name at baptism, so I added a biographical note to that effect.

Because her parents and siblings already had FindaGrave entries I added the reference numbers for those memorials, so they are now all linked.

I have also added a postem on FreeBMD, so anyone who finds her birth registration will know she was baptised with a totally different name, which they may find helpful if they then want to look at Parish records.

I’m certainly not claiming any great ‘find’ that could not have been worked out by other researchers but the existence of the biographical details function on FindaGrave at least gives the opportunity to record potentially helpful pointers.

Send a pm to Sarah https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?action=profile;u=4
or Trystan https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?action=profile;u=5

The list you refer to is at the bottom of the Forum page https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php

Thank you very much for your help. Issue is finally sorted.