Hi Suzy W
Were does the 1861 census say she was born?
Does it say she was unmarried or widow?
What was Mary's maiden name, using the surname Murray listed below are all the Mary Murray deaths in Perthshire from 1860 to 1870.?
If I have the correct Mary she would have been born 1783 to 1785?
MURRAY HARRIET MARY JA 1 LOW F 1861 359 / 3 INCHTURE
MURRAY MARY 2 SULLIVAN F 1863 333 / 9 BLACKFORD
MURRAY MARY 86 GALLOWAY F 1870 379 / 16 MEIGLE
MURRAY MARY 41 PURIE F 1860 394 / A / 33 SCONE (PERTH)
MURRAY MARY 48 HIND F 1865 387 / 204 PERTH
MURRAY MARY 79 TAYLOR F 1866 386 / A / 24 MUTHILL
MURRAY MARY 1 KEAY F 1860 328 / 31 ALYTH
MURRAY MARY 5 MURRAY F 1865 386 / A / 25 MUTHILL
MURRAY MARY 75 BROWN F 1866 387 / 162 PERTH
1861 census from St Madoes
MURRAY ANN 1861 F 68 392/ 1/ 1 ST MADOES PERTH
MURRAY JOHN 1861 M 56 392/ 1/ 3 ST MADOES PERTH
MURRAY MARY 1861 F 77 392/ 1/ 3 ST MADOES PERTH
All the above taken from
www.scotlandspeople.gov.ukYours Aye
BruceL