Thanks for the reply, i indeed meant Maestag
We know there is a stone just not where exactly in the cemetary or the exact info on it the stone.
Margaret Ann was indeed also a Thomas so thank you for that info on Thomas at a glance the dates seem to fit in around the other children ok so might be him. No one ever spoke of him apparantly so we only found out about him in a chance conversation with a cousin ( think she found out from the stone, but she can't remember where it is and is to ill to go and look for us) and only thing they know is the name and that he's buried with his parents.