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« on: Saturday 03 January 15 02:54 GMT (UK) »
Thankyou everyone for your help, much of the info matches, some dates do not, but maybe ages on census are not always spot on.
From what i have gained from this query. Hyperthetically the following maybe my Mary:=
My Mary Lacy, b Ireland 1838 to Roger and Elinor/Ellen,
m1 Edward McDonough 1858 he died 1859, they had a dau Mary Ellen/Ellen b 1859,
m2 Dennis Kirwin 1864, Mary posssibly died in 1867
!871 census Dennis Kirwin and his step dau , Mary Ellen/Ellen were staying with his BIL John Lacey, there is no mention of his wife Mary.
I don'y know who Mary Doyle is as Mary and John Lacy's parents were Roger and Elinor/Helen Lacy.
The up shot of all this is Mary's dau Ellen McDonough came to Australia ca 1871, stayed with her Aunt Jane and later m William Justin - they were my husband's great grand parents. Thanks again everyone, Cheers from Austraila -40 deg here today a good time to stay inside and do some research.