Oh My Goodness - I'm totally overwhelmed. All these years of wondering and trying to find things out from snippets of info and how absolutely wonderful to hear from you with confirmation of everything and so much more besides. Thank you so much Anne and Mairead for taking the time to reply to me and Neasan for forwarding this all on to you. I was straight on the phone to my sister and mum to tell them. It's so great to hear all about your family. My dad always said he thought he had a lot of cousins in Ireland - how right he was! It's nice to know that John and Pat kept in touch up until just before John passed away, and that he and Martin came over to see my Grandfather. I'm so pleased about that, because I always wondered why Pat came to England, why he had left all his family behind, at least I know they were all still close which has made me happy.
I did find something on the internet a while ago about a John Sheridan who was lost at sea and I remember wondering if it was a family member and it turns out he was my G-Grandfather. Amazing. I can't remember where I saw it, but I will definitely have another look and see if I can find it again.
My Grandfather, Pat, did settle in Charlton, London, where he lived the rest of his life passing away on 16th July 1944. He married my Grandmother in August 1927, a widow named Mary Ann Martin (nee Courtney) who he met on his journey over from Ireland, she was on her way over from Cork. He was 42 when he got married so he left it quite late to start his family. Pat continued the work he had been doing in Dublin, and was a bottle maker in a factory in Charlton. He had two sons, as I mentioned before, John and my dad Pat. John married and had three children and my dad married and had me and my older sister. During WWII Pat was an air raid warden, and the family were bombed out of three houses. As a result there are no existing photos of Pat as everything was destroyed in the bombings, which is probably why we had so little info about him too. As I said Pat passed away in July 1944, not as a result of the war I might add.
It's such a shame my dad and my Uncle John are not here for me to tell them all this. John passed away in his 50's, but before he died he came to Ireland to try and do some family research but he found it hard with so little info and didn't manage to find anything - now we find it much easier thanks to the wonders of the internet!
It's so lovely to hear from you, it would be wonderful to hear anything more that turns up from chats with your Auntie or your cousin, you've already made such a difference, thank you.
Wow! I'm still flabberghasted!
Thanks so much again,
Polly