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« on: Wednesday 13 August 14 16:42 BST (UK) »
Boy, these comments are interesting. Thanks. I'm not even sure why I'm getting so intrigued by such things while other members of my family are quite disinterested, even to the point of not wanting to hear such things as some ancestors being born illegitimately. Based on the tree information that was passed to me I've learned that I should actually be carrying the name Robinson, so I gave my son that middle name, kind of a token gesture, ha ha. One ancestor had it as a first name, long long ago.
When I started digging a couple years ago, trying to confirm for myself that the tree information I'd been given was accurate and to expand upon it, I was struck by a number of things. One was the negative attention paid to illegitimate but also how many there were. Also, how easy it is to make assumptions that could be wrong based on the use of identical names and the lack of middle names and so forth. I recall spending a whole night (til 9 AM!) just reading a Yorkshire parish record imagining all the interactions of the various people - seems one family in my tree was quite involved in the church. I was struck by the uniformity of names in certain districts over many many years, etc. etc.
One old-timer (a relative I guess) kept a diary and in it was a brief comment that my grandfather whom I never knew had just left for Canada! From my mother, I know he took my father (born to the next door neighbor's daughter, my Granny) who was two, with him and his children (quite a bit older) from a deceased wife. I can recall my very elderly father, teary eyed, expressing that he never even "had a name". What dynamics must have existed. My Granny came two years later bringing her second child, a daughter with her. Apparently they had to get married or the immigration wasn't going to be approved. Granny was barely older than an older daughter of Grandpa's who had been looking after my father in Canada, and now I understand the affection my father had for aunt Mary and why granny had no use for her, LOL. Then my grandfather died leaving my father who was about 8 to be the man of the house relative to Granny's side and there were two more boys, one just a baby. All the relatives who knew the secrets are now gone so here I am burning with curiosity and this desire to look far back. Thankfully, I have an extensive tree that was passed to me, hard to believe!
I'd still love to hear if there are any books that really stand out as being both useful and interesting in combining history and genealogy as well as further pointers on how to maximize ones efforts given minimal free time.
Jack