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« on: Saturday 12 October 19 11:05 BST (UK) »
Hi Trees
To be honest you have a hell of a complicated problem on your hands but personally I would say that as no researcher knows for certain what happened then its entirely down to you which story you follow as they both seem very credible. A good friend of mine who is a very respected researcher always says don't put anyone on your tree as a certainty until you can get the facts from 3 sources but I have to admit that this is impossible at times so we have to go with the flow & hope that our gut feelings are correct.
Im glad your back on a more even keel now as you sound like you've been through the mill in one way or another
All the very best
Phil
ps I wish there had been some info on those bastardy bonds but I went through them at least twice to make certain so don't think I missed anything important