I came across these two marriages in Harwich in the Essex transcripts at Essex Record office ref: T/R 203/49 pages 3036-3116:
1804 Jun 10 GRISLEY John Abraham of HM Ship Pegasus m. PACKWORTH Martha widow of HM Ship Pegasus
1809 Mar 28 ENSLIE Robert 76th Regt. of Foot widower (signs EMSLIE) m. GREASLY Sarah of 76th Regt. of Foot. Licence.
I had heard of women being allowed on ships in Napoleonic times or earlier. And I believe every army has had its camp-followers. But these entries conjured up an image in my mind of equal opportunities existing far earlier than I had been told.
It also brought home to me how difficult research must be for anyone who has ancestors who were soldiers or sailors before, say, 1850 particularly if they are unaware of the fact. If there is no website already providing for this purpose, what do you think about a portion of this website being used solely to (a) list known marriages involving soldiers or sailors before 1850 (say) and (b) list known births of children of soldiers or sailors before 1850 (say). Anyone who doesn't mind spending a few minutes noting a few of such events as they do their own research could be a big help to others. I have no personal axe to grind here, honestly....