Hi Bev
In 1841
Eaton Socon HO107/001-05 folio 4b
Susan Hopkins 60 Independent Born in county
Living alone
NBI has a burial of Thomas Hopkins age 65 on 15 July 1836 at Eaton Socon
1861 census
RG9/974 folio 43
Post St, Godmanchester, Hunts
James Bester head marr 52 Grocer & cattle dealer & farmer of 10 acres employing 1 man and 1 boy born Godmanchester
Susannah Bester wife 55 b Eaton Socon
Elizabeth Bester dau unmarr 19 b Godmanchester
Susannah Hopkins stepmother widow 81 Formerly coachman's wife b Eaton Socon
Catherine Maile niece 17 unmarr House servant b Godmanchester
BVRI has a marriage at Godmanchester on 25 Dec 1838 between James Bester (father Thomas) and Susannah Hopkins (father Thomas).
NBI has a burial at Godmanchester on 31 July 1864 of Susan Hopkins age 84
It looks as though all of the children you mention were from the same parents - the only doubt might be George, but you would need to find a marriage of another Thomas to another Susannah, which I can't see. George might have been baptised late. You need to check the parish register to see if Thomas in each case has the same occupation. Jim Bundy on the Bedford mailing list has transcribed many of the Eaton Socon parish registers, which you can search on his postings on the list -
http://listsearches.rootsweb.com/?list=BEDFORDHope this helps
Regards
David