Lovely to hear from you. To hear from a present day descendant of someone I only know about from old records, makes them feel so much more real.
Not sure I have much information which is new to you about your great grandmother, Edith. Most of what I know was provided by “Alaskan Princess”, who kindly sent me a lot of information last year, and I assume you have seen this.
Apart from this, the first mention of Edith I have is the following notice from the Portsmouth Evening News, 8 April, 1897:
“A marriage has been arranged, and will take place on April 21st between Mr Edward S Carruthers, R.E. Civil Staff, eldest son of Mr James Carruthers of Sevenoaks, Kent, late Superintending Civil Engineer, Pembroke Dock, and Edith Maud Stokes, eldest daughter of Mr W L Stokes, J.P., Limerick, and granddaughter of the late Mr Edward Stokes of Dundrum Co. Dublin.”
Unfortunately it omits to mention where the marriage will take place!
I have the birth certificate for their daughter Eleanor Jane Stigant born on 8 February, 1898, in Limerick, and also the marriage certificate for Paul Whetham and Edith in Buenos Aires on 25 July, 1911. This gives Edith’s father’s name as William Lamb Stokes (deceased), and occupation Merchant.
I Googled the names of Edith’s father and grandfather, and their names came up, so you should not find it too difficult to find out more about them as they seem to be quite a prominent Irish family.
I found Eleanor (known as Nellie) in the 1911 census at a boarding school in Southport, Lancashire. After the divorce Edith went to Argentina then later on to Africa, so it doesn’t look as if she could have spent much time with her daughter. Eleanor married Harry Bligh an RAF pilot from Sevenoaks, Kent, in London in 1922, so maybe she spent more time with her Carruthers grandfather and his family as they lived in Sevenoaks. Do you know if your grandfather was able to meet his half sister at all or have much contact with her?
I feel rather sorry for Eleanor as her father died in 1917 when she would have been only 19. Edward had remarried but I don’t know how she got on with her stepmother.
With this very international background I am quite curious to know where you family are living now! I assume you are no longer in Africa.
One other small piece of information I have is from a probate list dated 12 June, 1895:
Stokes, Edward. Effects £327. Probate of the Will of Edward Stokes late of 7 Sydenham Road, Dundrum, County Dublin, Esquire, who died 17 May 1895 at same placed granted at Dublin to Frederick Stokes of 7 Sydenham Road, Esquire.
I hope amongst the above there may be something to help with your research, and I would appreciate any comments you may have.
Best wishes for a Happy New Year and lots of progress with your family history project.
Valerie