Armed with 1881 information I can now identify the correct family in 1861. Didn't like giving their names away
1861 censusCecil Street Moss Side
William Graham Head age 66 Commercial Traveller born Ireland
Delia wife age 54 born Ireland
Wm B son age 28 Commercial Traveller born Ireland
E.A dau age 22 born Ireland
Charlotte dau age 20 born Ireland
S.A son age 18 Clerk Manchester Goods born Manchester Lancs
W.G Brierley age 21 born Manchester
RG9/2901 Chorlton Hulme Folio 103 Page 41