Hi Tanja
You're a wonderful example to us all. I'm sending you a huge hug, and asking Archangel Raphael to surround you in his healing light (so if anyone says you have gone green, you'll know what it is
).
He's a very busy Angel at the moment, but he can be in more than one place at a time.
Cancer is the one illness we all fear at sometimes in our lives, and when we hear of someone dear having it, it comes as a blow.
Now the initial shock is over, my sister has picked herself up, dusted herself off and is carrying on as normally as she can.
We do have a laugh over the phone, and luckily can talk openly about it. We are very close, and if I could have squeezed onto the scan table next to her, I would have done, though I'm bigger than her, and would probably have shoved her off onto the floor
Some of her friends wont phone her, as they are obviously worried about what to say to her, so I told her to ring them and break the ice. Speaking about it openly, helps come to terms with it, and we can all help each other deal with it, and beat it.
So we (all your friends) are here for you Tanja, for Sue's Mum, my Sister and everyone else suffering with this, and any other illness.
From a little Friendship Book ...
Friendship has a special meaning
when you have someone with whom
to share tears, and laughter, fears and dreams
and silence when the time for words is past.
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Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow;
don't walk behind me, I may not lead;
walk beside me, and just be my friend.
~~~Albert Camus~~~
Yes, RuthieB, laughter is the best medicine
Love to all
Su xxxxx