Sally I love your story and hope you soon find your ancestors house, what a fantastic coincidence.
All mine are sight coincidences (more like 'that's odd'). My family, I though, were from Birmingham and that was that, but I recently found my GGG Granfather Samuel Cheshire was born 1847 in Atherstone Warks and his son was born and brought up in Nuneaton (down the road). My parents only moved to Hurley near Atherstone 1961 from a few years in Scotland and I was born 1963 but at a few weeks old moved to Nuneaton. My family left here in 1970 for Brinscall in Lancashire and I moved to Surrey with my future husband in 1984.
Also from recent searches I found that some family born in the sound of the Bow Bells had ancestors (are you following this
) who originated from Odiham Hampshire just a few miles down the road from where I live now and whilst doing a college course went to Odiham castle to base a graphics project on it. Why on earth I was drawn there I don't know, there are better examples of castles elsewhere. I have only recently found this out and am keen to go and search out any grave stones - I've not told my husband of my plans yet!!!
There are many more similarities and I haven't started on my Dad's side yet.
I find it quite comforting to know my ancestors lived close by, I feel like I belong somewhere now!
Pipkim