Colette
Sympathise with you entirely.
I don't mind paying to get the information and eventually download a scanned copy of the record.
I have managed with about 90-95% success to track down some 50-60 BMD records of direct relations on the Scotland's people website. Each record costs about GBP 1.00 - GBP 1.20 including initial view. In all you have to buy batches of 30 credits for GBP 6.00, and you have about 5 days to use them up - and unused credits will be extended provided you buy a further 30 credits before the five days have expired. This at least gives you time to run several searches and cross refrences before committing to view the record. The more information you gather the less chance you have for error and a wasted download.

Having had also some success with the Scots Origins website which is free and which is useful for preliminary searches I thought I would try the Irish Origins website - yearly membership about GBP 30. However it did not compare with Scots Origins or Scotlands People and BMD searches were useless unless you had sufficient information to hand already and were really only looking for copies of official documents. Without any or minimal info I found the site useless. In fairness to the website, they did give me a refund of membership as I registered my complaint immediately.

I get the impression that the Ulster website will be much the same and to "gamble" GBP 6.00 a time on a "common" name with only the year and general location is asking a bit much.

Thanks for confirming my suspicions.
Paul.